Look no further than this grandma, who is bravely stating what she has learned in life. Look at the hateful comments, especially on Twitter!
https://twitter.com/godlywomanhood
https://www.youtube.com/@LoriAlexander1980/videos
Look at how much attempted shame, blame shifting, and otherwise sidestepping of her arguments, all in the name of feigned empathy. These attackers pretend to be motivated by a desire to help others when they are actually just sacrificing the lives of those who have not yet made their mistake for the momentary alleviation of their own guilt.
Without lying women and cowardly men, more than 99% of all problems in this world would probably go away.
Why don't older women tell younger women the truth? Because women who feel guilty for having chosen something else will tear them apart. Kudos to the courageous. Lonely are the brave.